Originally published on March 9, 2016
Revised October 5, 2024
Author: Robin Kaplan, M.Ed, IBCLC, FNC
Wondering what breastfeeding/chestfeeding look like when your baby is 6-9 months? As our little ones continue to grow physically {begin to roll over, sit up, crawl} and developmentally {sleep longer stretches at night and interact more with the world around them}, we notice the impact of these changes on their feeding patterns.
In this blog series, Breastfeeding the Older Baby - What to Expect and How to Adjust, we will answer some of the most common questions and concerns we hear from parents, as they navigate breastfeeding/chestfeeding a 6-9 month old. What are some normal behaviors to expect from a baby this age and how can you tell if there’s a challenge that you should seek lactation support for?
ABOUT SDBFC
The San Diego Breastfeeding Center was established in 2009 by Robin Kaplan, International Board Certified Lactation Consultant, Functional Nutritionist, and parent. Her vision was to create a judgment-free, inclusive support system for families navigating infant feeding challenges.
SDBFC offers a wide range of one-on-one breastfeeding, infant feeding, and nutrition consultations - as well as classes, support groups, online articles, and social media - making it your one-stop-shop for all things infant feeding!
What does breastfeeding/chestfeeding look like in months 6-9?
How often should a baby be breastfeeding and how long should feedings take?
At 6-9 months, breastmilk is still a vital source of nutrition, even as your baby starts to explore solid foods. The frequency and length of breastfeeding/chestfeeding sessions may vary depending on your baby’s appetite and routine, but here are some general guidelines:
Breastfeeding frequency: Typically, babies breastfeed/chestfeed around 5-6 times per day at this stage, with some babies still nursing in the middle of the night, as well.
Duration of feedings: Babies at this age can be very effective at removing a lot of milk in a very short period of time. Each nursing session may last anywhere from 5 to 20 minutes (on average), depending on your baby’s efficiency, interest, and when they last fed.
Feeding positions: As your baby becomes increasingly mobile, you may notice that they may want to move from the cradle hold to sitting or standing or some variety of nursing gymnastics. Handing your baby something soft or crinkly to play with while nursing may help them focus and stay in one position until they are finished feeding.
My baby is eating solid food now, how does this impact our breastfeeding/chestfeeding routine?
Introducing solid foods to your baby’s diet can shift your breastfeeding/chestfeeding routine, but your milk continues to be the main source of nutrition. Here’s how solids may impact your feeding routine and how to protect your milk supply in the process:
Complementary, not replacement: Solids are meant to complement your milk at this stage, not replace it. Continue to breastfeed/chestfeed (or offer a bottle of your pumped milk) before solid meals to maintain milk intake.
Keep serving sizes of solid foods small: The goal for solids between 6-9 months is to familiarize your baby with different tastes and textures, while also developing hand-eye coordination, as your little one learns to self-feed. Keeping serving sizes small will ensure that your baby will not fill up on solids and continues to take around 30oz a day of your milk by breastfeeding and/or bottle.
Ensuring milk production: To keep your milk supply stable, continue breastfeeding/chestfeeding on demand and ensure regular milk removal through nursing or pumping.
How much weight should my baby be gaining at this age?
After six months of age, normal weight gain for a breastfed/chestfed baby is 2-3oz per week. Weight gain slows during this time as babies begin to roll over, scoot, crawl, and walk, burning more calories by being more active throughout the day. If you are ever concerned about your baby’s weight gain patterns, you can reference theWHO growth charts, which were created specifically for breastfed/chestfed infants.
My baby keeps biting me while breastfeeding/chestfeeding. What can I do to stop this?
If your baby is biting while breastfeeding/chestfeeding, it can be painful, but there are ways to gently prevent and correct this behavior. Here are some tips to help stop biting during feedings:
Watch for signs: Pay attention to cues that your baby may be done feeding or about to bite, such as decreasing swallows, adjusting their latch, or giving you a smirk like they are about to do something to get your attention. If you see one of these signs, immediately unlatch your baby before they have an opportunity to sink their teeth into you.
End the feeding calmly: If your baby bites, immediately stop the feeding and calmly but firmly say "no biting" or "that hurts." This helps your baby understand the connection between biting and the end of feeding.
Offer alternatives: Babies may bite when teething or exploring new sensations. Offer a cold teething toy or a chilled cloth before or after nursing to soothe sore gums.
Stay consistent: Respond the same way each time your baby bites, using calm but firm guidance. With repetition, your baby will begin to understand that biting interrupts feeding.
If you still have questions about breastfeeding/chestfeeding or offering solids to your 6-9 month old, we are just a consult away!
As your baby continues to grow and develop, their feeding patterns will naturally change, but navigating these transitions doesn't have to be stressful. Whether you're adjusting to a new breastfeeding/chestfeeding schedule, introducing solids, or dealing with challenges like biting, it's important to feel confident in your approach. If you have further questions or concerns about feeding your 6-9 month old, or need guidance on maintaining your milk supply, the San Diego Breastfeeding Center is here to help. Book a one-on-one appointment with one of our lactation consultants today for personalized support tailored to you and your baby’s needs.
SDBFC is committed to providing high-quality lactation and functional nutrition consultations to parents in San Diego and beyond. Explore our postpartum, prenatal, and functional nutrition consultations, take a breastfeeding class or attend a workshop.
About the Author
Robin Kaplan has been an IBCLC since 2009, the same year that she opened up the San Diego Breastfeeding Center. Robin was the founding host of the Boob Group podcast and published her first book, Latch: a Handbook for Breastfeeding with Confidence at Every Stage in 2018. Melding her passions for supporting lactating parents and holistic health, Robin finished her Functional Nutrition Certification in 2023. In her free time, she enjoys hanging out with her two teenage boys, hiking, traveling, weaving, cooking, and searching for the best chai latte.